Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Katherine Hepburn

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I forgot to tell you all something…..as much as I babble you’d think I’d have remembered–but hey—WE GOT 1,000 (now 1,015) SUBSRIBERS SIGNED UP LAST SUNDAY—I was worried that nobody would even, ever read this….Pretty good as only taking subscriptions since June this year—THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR DOING SO.  Pictures today are from Winter Park ‘s  Hidden Garden Courtyard https://www.facebook.com/HiddenGardenCourtyard which my BFF Alicia Mc and I wandered around on our Friday adventure.    Oh and I’m still working on my trip to England which I will feature on my BLOG while I’m doing it so you’ll get daily pictures etc.  Yesterday working on York:  http://www.visityork.org/,  Can’t forget my HONORABLE MENTION:  MODERNISM MUSEUM MT. DORA www.ModernismMuseum.org

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Most men act so tough and strong on the outside because on the inside, we are scared, weak, and fragile. Men, not women, are the weaker sex,  Jerry Rubin

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

LITTLE Things Mean A Lot FIGURINE Avon 1983

Check out this on some deleted OUTLANDER scenes surfacing on the net:
AS we continue on our view of women I thought we might try THE INFAMOUS
This Belle Star….she was a major character in lots of westerns and yes she was real but how real?
According to History.com:    Born Myra Belle Shirley on a small farm near Carthage, Missouri, in 1848, she received an education in the classics and became a competent pianist.  Not exactly what you’d expect from the hard drinking, hard living woman of the old West that we have seen on screen and in books.  http://www.history.com/this-day-in-history/belle-starr-murdered-in-oklahoma  While her older brother “Bud taught her to use guns and ride horses, and it is believed that she joined him—unofficially—as he tried to subvert the Union’s efforts in Missouri. (family supported the Confederacy.) ”  http://www.biography.com/people/belle-starr-9492533#synopsis  Bud who rode with Quantrill, was surrounded and killed trying to escape from Union forces in June 1864.   Soon after this the family moved to Texas.
with Blue Duck one of her lovers.
In Texas she married her first husband (whom she knew from Missouri) James C. “Jim” Reed   They were married on November 1, 1866.   Reed who was “riding” with the Younger Brother’s lived with his wife at the family home between his criminal activities.    But by 1871 the couple had returned to Missouri where they lived with his family and their two children (Pearl and Ed).  http://www.encyclopedia.com/topic/Belle_Starr.aspx  
 
 She never married again but took lovers and:  “She survived all but two of these men.”  http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GRid=975 She was living near the Canadan River in Indian territory when she was shot from behind with a shot gun by someone laying in ambush.  Though there were many suspect the crime still remains unsolved (“A neighbor, Edgar J. Watson [killed in 1910, was tried for her murder, but was acquitted.  http://www.newworldencyclopedia.org/entry/Belle_Starr )  She lived about an hour after her injury dying in her cabin  just 2 days short of turning 41.
“Belle says she anticipates no trouble in establishing her innocence in the cases against her, but thinks it terribly annoying to have to spend her time and money coming down here to court five and six times a year.” 
FORT SMITH, Ark., May 30, 1886        
She rests still today:  Lake Eufaula, Oklahoma: ” “Queen of the Bandits,” buried in a grave along a trail off the highway “- http://www.roadsideamerica.com/tip/43540#sthash.gUNS3BPS.dpuf

Shed not for her the bitter tear Nor give the heart to vain regret Tis but the casket that lies here The gem that filled it sparkles yet.   Belle Starr

 
Her son Ed, was arrested and put in prison for horse theft and receiving stolen property in  1889.  while her daughter Rosie (better known as Pearl Starr) became a prostitute to raise funds for his release.   She seems to have taken after her mom as she obtained it in 1893.  Ed became a police officer killed in line of duty 1896
but Rosie/Pearl had found a good thing:  “Making a good living in prostitution, Pearl operated several bordellos in Van Buren and Fort Smith, Arkansas, from the 1890s to World War I.”   http://www.geni.com/people/Myra-Maybelle-Shirley-Belle-Starr/6000000009586783610

 

“She actually didn’t become famous until:  “Bella Starr, The Bandit Queen, or The Female Jesse James. A Full and Authentic History of the Dashing Female Highwayman, with Copious Extracts from Her Journal. Handsomely and Profusely Illustrated.The book was first published in 1889, the same year she was mysteriously murdered. Creative license added more romance to Belle Starr’s past and extended to her story. Much of it was a complete fabrication, including invented texts from “her journal …..”   http://www.atlasobscura.com/articles/belle-starr-the-bandit-queen

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 Chauncey Depew quotes 

 

 

 

AND THUS I PRESENTS A WOMAN WHO WAS BROUGHT UP TO BE GOOD AND IN THE END WAS BAD WHICH WAS PROBABLY BETTER THAN BEING GOOD AND WEARING PEARLS—INFAMOUSNESS HAS ITS OWN REWARDS.  The Dragon Lair Diva.

 

 

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CLAMITY JANE

When I joined Custer I donned the uniform of a soldier. It was a bit awkward at first but I soon got to be perfectly at home in men’s clothes.    Calamity Jane

 

 Oscar Wilde quotes 

 

 

 

 

 

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Belle Starr
Words and Music by Woody Guthrie

Belle Starr, Belle Starr, tell me where you have gone
Since old Oklahoma’s sandhills you did roam?
Is it Heaven’s wide streets that you’re tying your reins
Or singlefooting somewhere below?

 

“….in proving that insanity is more prevalent among women than among men.” Charles Dickens

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Wrapping more Items I sold:  check out my store, there may be something you can’t live w/o:  https://www.etsy.com/shop/DragonLaire?ref=hdr_shop_menu How’s it going with you?  Spent the evening reading and planning more of my trip.  Rainy and ugly here today.  Honorable mention Mt. Dora Again:  ASHLEY’S FLAG AND SPORT SHOPPE    https://www.facebook.com/AshleysCornerMtDora

 

 

 

 

 

“Bertha is the embodiment of the monstrous lunatic who requires restraint,” says historian of madness, Catherine Arnold.   http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/8622367.stm

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Fenton Signed 10" Silver Crest Spanish Lace BOWL with Hand Painted Flowers

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Cait and Sam take a break from Claire and Jamie.

 

 

 

Check out who Sam wants to play Jamie’s daughter:  http://www.inquisitr.com/2447404/outlander-star-sam-heughan-wants-a-certain-game-of-thrones-star-to-play-briana-fraser/

 

 

 

 

Some other cast members away from Scotland

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

“Dispute not with her: she is lunatic.”
William Shakespeare, Richard III

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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I thought today we’d examine  the MAD WOMAN (Dickens wrote the title quote while attending a Christmas Celebration at one of London’s mental institution.)

The Victorian age, which was one of reforms and improvements to how the mad were viewed as  well as the institutions and yet their treatment was still barbaric by our standards.  The cause of madness was still unknown and so like Charlotte Bronte’s mad wife Mrs.  Rochester who escapes from her attic prison and sets a fire that changes everything, the mad woman as a force of nature–or an avenging spirit.  If you would like to see the mad woman’s story try READING: The Wide Sargasso Sea  http://www.amazon.com/Wide-Sargasso-Sea-A-Novel/dp/0393308804 or watching:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zNoncujS6wc    When Bronte’s treatment of the mad wife as pretty much the villain;  thus favoring the man who  locked her away and become involved with Jane;  was questioned she apologized–after all she had a sibling–a brother, who was affected with psychological issues and actually set a bed afire.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

‘It is true that profound pity ought to be the only sentiment elicited by the view of such degradation,’  Charlotte Bronte

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Of Course the further back the worse the mad woman becomes.  Shakespeare has a few mad women:
Lady Macbeth:  Infirm of purpose!
Give me the daggers. The sleeping and the dead
Are but as pictures; ’tis the eye of childhood
That fears a painted devil.
I’m not at all sure that Lady Macbeth  (The real Lady Macbeth’s first name was Gruoch, although this is not mentioned in the play and he was her second husband. http://www.william-shakespeare.info/shakespeare-play-macbeth.htm)  was actually insane, but rather a corporate raider meets Mafia Don— type that didn’t fit in with the Elizabethan’s woman’s proper place.   And since it was so unwomanly she therefore must be mad.
Ophelia:    But Yet I do believe
The origin and commencement of this grief
Sprung from neglected love
Charney Maurice suggests that since within Renaissance drama madwomen were ‘more strongly defined than madmen’, and women’s madness was ‘interpreted as something specifically feminine’    http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/8622367.stm
Which makes sense in an age when women were less privileged and less important than their male counter-part and so madness or at least behavior non-becoming her feminine role would be closely looked at and defined as a madness.  I could imagine a woman pushed beyond her tolerance of a situation using such behavior just to escape her burdens in life.  Not saying it happened but think about yourself and that situation. 

No doubt exists that all women are crazy; it’s only a question of degree.    W. C. Fields

Then there’s the more current heroine:  Blanche DuBois (Truman Capote)
Blanche: They told me to take a streetcar named ‘Desire’,transfer to one called ‘Cemetery’,ride six blocks and get off,at Elysian Fields. 
In the 19th century:

Women’s health issues were also seemingly neglected under a catch all of lunacy. ‘Imaginary female trouble’, ‘suppression of menses’ – which could be the case of being pregnant out of wedlock, or caused by an eating disorder or other illness – and hysteria.

The weaker sex, as women were defined at the time the asylum first opened, also meant a strong attitude could land them in trouble, with ‘nymphomania’ and ‘seduction and disappointment’ reasons for admission. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2413131/Immorality-post-traumatic-stress-Reasons-patients-admitted-lunatic-asylum-1800s.html#ixzz3n9MJNgYT

 

So just about anything female could get you committed—starts to make our characters a bit more sane doesn’t it.

 

 

 

 

 

And if can’t commit them there’s always burning— as let face it wasn’t  it those 3 women who caused Macbeth’s problems.
Fair is foul, and foul is fair;
Hover through the fog and filthy air.  ALL THREE WITCHES/MACBETH
Norma Desmond: [to newsreel camera] And I promise you I’ll never desert you again because after ‘Salome’ we’ll make another picture and another picture. You see, this is my life! It always will be! Nothing else! Just us, the cameras, and those wonderful people out there in the dark!… All right, Mr. DeMille, I’m ready for my close-up. (Sunset Blvd.)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

‘What does a woman want?’” Sigmund Freud

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Good morning Ladies and Gentlemen it’s Monday—stop screaming and put that energy towards what you’re aiming to do this week—your aims, work takes care of itself but your stuff get relegated to the little energy you have after work beats you up for 8 or more hours a day.  I like that commercial that asks WHEN DID IT BECOME AN ACT OF COURAGE TO LEAVE WORK ON TIME.   Had a great Friday and Sat and tried to relax Sunday which was a weird day.  The main picture and this one just above are from the Winter Park Scenic Boat Trip (http://www.scenicboattours.com/)—some quiet time that is so much fun.  A shout out to our guide Tom S. who did a fantastic job.  Honorable mention for the day:  Casadaga Fairy Faire and Fairy Trail:  https://www.facebook.com/BrighidsFairyFaireBff    Oh and I just got some communication that I will probably do the FaceBook for my High School Remembrance and keep in touch FB.

 

 

 

“When a man sits with a pretty girl for an hour, it seems like a minute. But let him sit on a hot stove for a minute and it’s longer than any hour. That’s relativity.”    Albert Einstein

 

 

 

 

 

 

WINSTON CUP Scene Inigural Indy Race Paper 8/4/1994

Hello there Jamie…ah I mean Sam
Check out Lord Gray News for next season on OUTLANDER
OK YOU ASK WHAT A WOMAN WANTS—-CHECK OUT THE CENTER OF THIS PICTURE:  JAMES  ALEXANDER MALCOM MCKENZIE FRASER
“Guys are like dogs. They keep coming back. Ladies are like cats. Yell at a cat one time … they’re gone.”   Lenny Bruce
SO I THOUGHT THIS WEEK I’D JUST KINDA WANDER THROUGH THE WORLD OF WOMEN—STARTING WITH FAMOUS ONES TODAY:
Cleopatra certainly has to be one of the oldest (non-religious) women that most of the unwashed public actually knows about.  Basically she became queen of Egypt, though she was probably (the sites I’ve read are a bit vague on this) Greek of a family appointed by conquers of the country.  I picked Liz Taylor in the part, because Liz also was bigger than life (not to mention hooked up with men of wealth and power)  and the movie where she played the queen was a vision of over the top Egyptian symbolism.  Not to mention that Liz was a legend in her own right.  We all have heard the story….hooks up with Julius until he met his untimely end and then (some say a more romantic and closer her age) with Mark Antony which resulted in both their downfalls—hers by an asp some say.   Cleo to me is the ultimate woman who knew what she want and used what she had available (her face, body and sexual favors) to get it.   Unfortunately neither of the men she hooked up with could get her what this woman really wanted:  POWER and possibly WORLD DOMINATION
“A man’s face is his autobiography. A woman’s face is her work of fiction.”  Oscar Wilde
Boudicca if you’re British you’ll recognize this one, if your not it may be a reach.  This lady was the wife of a chief of one of the Celtic Tribes at the time of the Romans (think something like Scottish Clan chiefs).  “….But the person who was chiefly instrumental in rousing the natives and persuading them to fight the Romans, the person who was thought worthy to be their leader and who directed the conduct of the entire war, was Buduica, a Briton woman of the royal family and possessed of greater intelligence than often belongs to women….In stature she was very tall, in appearance most terrifying, in the glance of her eye most fierce, and her voice was harsh; a great mass of the tawniest hair fell to her hips; around her neck was a large golden necklace; and she wore a tunic of divers colours over which a thick mantle was fastened with a brooch. This was her invariable attire.”   Dio, Roman History (LXII.1-2)  Seems like the arrogant Romans killed her husband and raped her and her daughtersPay back is a B—-.   She raised her own as well as other tribes and went to war.  She and her army destroyed many cities and killed thousands of both Romans and British.  The mighty Roman army withdrew from their port of Londinium (London) and she had it destroyed and burned to the groundRome even considered deserting the obstinate isle before she was finally defeated.  It is uncertain if she killed herself to keep from being captured or if she die of an illness the accounts are scattered.  There was never a doubt what this woman wanted REVENGE.
 “kingdom was plundered by centurions, his house by slaves, as if they were the spoils of war. First, his wife Boudicea was scourged (flogged), and his daughters outraged. All the chief men of the Iceni, as if Rome had received the whole country as a gift, were stripped of their ancestral possessions, and the king’s relatives were made slaves…” wrote Tacitus
“Woman begins by resisting a man’s advances and ends by blocking his retreat.”    Oscar Wilde
Eleanor of Aquitaine was an over achiever if there ever was one and I think of her as making every woman’s liberation advocate a bit lacking.  Not only was she Queen of France (where she participated in the 2nd Crusade–actually taking an entire troop of woman with her to the Holy Lands–but she filed for an annulment which was apposed by her husband Louis VII and so was granted–but after she gave birth to a second daughter he agreed) but also England (she became engaged to the future Henry III who was her 3rd cousin and 9 (other sources say 11—a woman after my own heart)  years younger whom she married 2 years later).  Her properties included a large majority of France.  While she bore France only daughters she bore England 8 children,  five of which were sons–three of whom would become king and 3 daughters.  But as many marriages things went bad.  Henry had many mistresses which Eleanor seem to have been able to tolerate , in fact at least one of his sons from these unions was raised with Eleanor’s children at court.  However when he apparently fell in love with Rosamund Clifford and made their affair very public it is rumored that Eleanor had her poisoned  or other wise murdered.   She also supported her son Henry against her husband and when that didn’t work out she was locked away until her husband death and became regent while her son Richard I was on crusade.  She out lived all her children except John (who was then king) and her daughter Eleanor who was queen of Castile.  No brainer here this queen wanted EVERYTHING.
“She (ELEANOR) was beautiful and just, imposing and modest, humble and elegant”; and, as the nuns of Fontevrault wrote in their necrology, a queen “who surpassed almost all the queens of the world.”
“Don’t wait for the good woman. She doesn’t exist.”
 Charles Bukowski
“Ah, women. They make the highs higher and the lows more frequent.”   Nietzsche

Waiting are they? Waiting are they? Well–let ’em wait. Ethan Allen

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LAST ONE THIS WEEK…how’s it ahhh happening?  Been working and actually sold some stuff—come on guys check it out I can use the cash:  https://www.etsy.com/shop/DragonLaire?ref=hdr_shop_menu  Have been working on my trip to England—first two days in London (Tower, Westminster, Jewel tower http://www.english-heritage.org.uk/visit/places/jewel-tower/ and maybe a tour of parliament.)   My Honorable Mention today is SPECIALTY PIZZA (Altamonte Springs) my very favorite:  http://specialtypizza.com/   Oh by the way….both pictures today are from previous Halloween decorations at my home–these are before I really started to seriously decorate but…..And all the quotes including the title are last words by the people quoted.  By the way of explaining title quote The Revolutionary General said it :  In response to an attending doctor who attempted to comfort him by saying, “General, I fear the angels are waiting for you.”

 

 

 

 

 

Am I dying or is this my birthday?
When she woke briefly during her last illness and found all her family around her bedside.
~~ Lady Nancy Astor, d. 1964

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

MATTEL MONKEES Hand Puppet 1960s

 

 

 

 

 

 

is he?

 

 

Check out Barnes and Nobles What Smart Women are Watching take on Outlander:  http://www.barnesandnoble.com/nook-blog/outlander-what-smart-women-are-watching/

 

 

 

OH YES HE IS —  WOW

Just a short space for Claire to move but what a great trip—especially her transporation.

 

 

 

 

 

Codeine . . . bourbon.
~~ Tallulah Bankhead, actress, d. December 12, 1968

 

 

 

 

 

 

FRENCH KISS by Bob Welsh 1977 LP 33 1/3 Vinyl Record

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Damn it . . . Don’t you dare ask God to help me.
To her housekeeper, who had begun to pray aloud.
~~ Joan Crawford, actress, d. May 10, 1977

 

 

 

 

 

THE FAMOUS

Maltese Catacombs of St Paul, Crypt of St. Agatha:  Tucked away in the narrow streets of Rabat outside the walled city of Medina is the entrance to what can only be described as an amazing experience of St Agatha’s remarkable frescos and museum.

St. Agatha started out as a beautiful Christian Girl in Sicily who consecrated her body and soul to the Savior, but the governor of the Sicily had other ideas, but when she refused him he had her tortured including her breast cut off with Shears, she was also to be burned but was spared that but given her pain she prayed for and was granted death.  Now she rests in the above catacombs.   And you thought Henry VIII was bad.

 

 

 

 

How were the receipts today at Madison Square Garden?
~~ P. T. Barnum, entrepreneur, d. 1891

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

AND INFAMOUS

NED KELLY was born in 1855 in Australia, of Irish descent he took up robbing banks and adventuring in Victoria and New South Wales until he was arrested in 1880, tried and hanged at the ripe age of 25.   His last words were “Ah, well, it has come to this.” and “Such a life.” After the hanging his head was cut off and was used to decorate a prison official’s office, until it was moved to the Australian Institute of Anatomy in Canberra where it went from décor to exhibit (not a lot of a distinction).  As for the rest of him–his body went unmolested until 1921 when the goal was demolished and the coffin discovered.  When student from a nearby school found out they swarmed to the site to salvage the remains, and the bones all went the way of Henry VIII’s finger to souvenirs and perhaps even another knife handle?

 

 

 

They could have saved the hand incase they were interested in a life of crime–in many parts of Europe  hands of hanged men were treasured by burglars and sorcerers.   Though these Hand of Glory were generally cut off fresh and pickled in various salts and dried in sunlight or an oven.  It was then used as a holder for a candle made of a hanged man’s fat, virgin wax and Lapland sesame.  It was believed it could be used by thieves as part of the break in to prevent the residents from awaken to name just one of its abilities.

 

 

 

I can’t sleep.
~~ James M. Barrie, author, d. 1937

 

 

 

 

 

MONSTER

Boris Karloff:  This little plaque in a unimpressive rose garden at an out of the way cemetery in a brough of Guilford about 45mins SW of London is all that is left to remind us of the man who brought us the impressive monster that was made by Frankenstein of odd parts from graves.  The son of wealth (his father a British diplomat) he did poorly in the country’s service and ran away to Canada with the first of five wives.  He became an actor when other efforts to support himself failed and he got his most famous role when Bea Lugosi refused the role of Frankenstein as he didn’t want to cover up his face with Make up.  He became the king of horror until the 1950s and his health failed.  He died of complications of emphysema at age 81 and his ashes were buried here in the Garden of Remembrance.

 

 

 

 

 

Is everybody happy? I want everybody to be happy. I know I’m happy.
~~ Ethel Barrymore, actress, d. June 18, 1959

 

 

 

 

AND THE VAMPIRE

Bela Lugosi was famous, and serious before he came to the US from Hungary  to pursue a film career.  However his first Broadway production was to seal his fate–he stared in Dracula in 1927 and so his path was decided.  He went on to be the most famous Dracula ever and played in other horror features as well, many of them downright awful.  Unfortunately he developed a major morphine addiction during this time and was forced in his later life to work for Edward D. Wood, who was  more bizarre than his films.  In fact Wood made Plan 9 from Outer Space (called the worst movie of all time) using miscellaneous footage of Lugosi and filling in odd scenes with his wife playing the part, her face and body covered in a cape.  Lugosi died of a heart attack shortly after undergoing treatment for his drug problems in April 1955 and marrying his third wife.  He was penniless and amazingly it’s reported that Frank Sinatra paid for his burial.  While that is in doubt so is the cape burial.  For though while he was buried in his Dracula Cape some stories say it was at his request; while others say that it was his son’s idea saying that his father would have wanted to be buried in it.

 

 

It is noted that in olden times silver nails were used on coffins to prevent the evil spirits from escaping.

 

 

 

 

Die? I should say not, dear fellow. No Barrymore would allow such a conventional thing to happen to him.
~~ John Barrymore, actor, d. May 29, 1942

 

 

 

 

AN ETERNAL CORPSE

Vladmir Ilyich Ulyanov was born in 1870 and the name might not ring a bell but he did change the last name to Lenin later .   He became a student agitator and radically chic.  He survived the Russian Revolution (one of his brothers was hanged)and became leader of the new Soviet Union.  A gifted control freak, he died and was embalmed.  Dressed in a formal dark suit the corpse was taken into  Moscow centre for display, surrounded by flowers.  After his funeral he was moved to a mausoleum but not for long for he was to  became a symbol of the Soviet Union.   His body (despite his wife’s protests) was further preserved by chemical immersion and cosmetic restoration.  A new mausoleum was completed and the body moved there and has since been the center of ceremonies and power in the Soviet Republic and with the body maintaining its original first bloom of ah—-preservations?  Stalin’s body rested here for awhile but Krushchev had it removed and interred among other honoured dead leaders  but not his own place.

 

 

 

 

 

I should never have switched from Scotch to Martinis.
~~ Humphrey Bogart, actor, d. January 14, 1957

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Mm! Mm! Good!.  Campbell Soup  With CAMPBELL KIDS 1991 Cup

 

 

 

Don’t let poor Nelly (his mistress, Nell Gwynne) starve.
~~ Charles II, King of England and Scotland, d. 1685

Grave at St. Martin in the Fields

Grave at St. Martin in the Fields
The crypt where Nell is buried is now a cafe…So she won’t Starve and  at least she’s not in a parking lot.

 

 

 

 

I’m bored with it all.
Before slipping into a coma. He died 9 days later.
~~ Winston Churchill, statesman, d. January 24, 1965

 

 

 

 

 

Minature White Pticher with Medieval Designs

That was the best ice-cream soda I ever tasted.
~~ Lou Costello, comedian, d. March 3, 1959

 

 

 

 

 

SOURES:

 

Benoit, Tod:  Where Are They Buried?  How Did They Die?

Radford, E. & M. Radford

Taylor, Timothy:   The Buried Soul

Well, Tom:  The Cemetery Book

 

 

 

 

 

The FIRST National BANK at Orlando Orlando Flora Cloth Vintage Draw string bag

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Men’s evil manners live in brass; their virtues We write in water Shakespeare (Henry VIII)

 

 

 

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All pictures today are from Hannibal Square:  http://www.hannibalsquareheritagecenter.org/  and all quotes from Henry VIII.   While I never met Henry I hope to visit his home town in June next year—and if I do my daily renditions and lots of pictures—will be on this Blog…not on my facebook just this blog.  I watched Mrs. Miniver  last night and you got to see it.  It’s in black and white and deals with a small town during World War II (the director who later visited war time England said that it was much worse than the movie depicted) and its a great movie   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J8NInYPgofI.  Honorable mention today:  AMY SELLERS ART GALLERY  Mt. Dora www.amysellersart.com

 

 

 

for all the prelates at their consecration make an oath to the Pope clean contrary to the oath that they make to us, so that they seem to be his subjects, and not ours”.

 

 

 

 

 

Primitive one of a kind Santa that was handmade in the USA.

 

 

 

 

 

MR HUEGAN OR

Have you visited the OUTLANDER COMMUNITY?  http://www.starz.com/outlandercommunity/home.html

MR FRASER—WHICH one is just a matter of stones

 

 

 

 

…although you be permitted to read Holy Scripture and to have the Word of God in your mother-tongue, you must understand that it is licensed you so to do only to inform your own conscience and to instruct your children and family

 

 

 

 

5 x 7 Publicity PHOTO of Faye Dunaway

ANNE BOLEYN Mother of the queen who outshined the promise             Queen of England from 1533 to 1536  Mother of Elizabeth    Accused of Adultery with several men including her brother.  Beheaded at the Tower.  “She was then buried in an unmarked grave in the Chapel of St Peter ad Vincula. Her skeleton was identified during renovations of the chapel in 1876, in the reign of Queen Victoria, and Anne’s resting place is now marked in the marble floor.”  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anne_Boleyn

 

 

“…to wish myself (specially an evening) in my sweetheart’s arms,
whose pretty ducks [breasts] I trust shortly to kiss.” 

 

 

 

 

JANE SEYMOUR:  ? – 1537                                                                                 Queen of England from 1536 to 1537                                                     Mother of Edward VI, died shortly after his birth of complications.  Was buried at St. George’s Chapel at Winsor where Henry was later interred.

 

 

 

 

 

My Dear friend and mistress,

 

 

 

 

Anne of Cleves.  1515 – 1557–was never actually crowned queen         Henry married sight unseen and had the marriage annulled shortly after he  met her saying he did not consummate.  She remained in England as her “brother’s guest and Anne died at Chelsea Old Manor on 16 July 1557, eight weeks before her forty-second birthday. The cause of her death was most likely to have been cancer.  Her Westminster Abbey tomb was marked only with her initials “AC” until a small plaque was installed during the 1970s. Today, Anna’s tomb is often obscured by rows of chairshttp://onthetudortrail.com/Blog/resources/tudor-tombs-and-burials/

 

 

 

“You have sent me a Flanders mare!”

 

 

 

 

 

Katherine Howard:  Henry’s last love                                                                     She was probably about 16 or 17 when she was beheaded for adultery along with several of her lovers, unlike Anne she was probably guilty.  She was buried under the same Tower Chapel floor as Anne.

 

 

 

“Rose without a thorn”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Catherine Parr was Queen of England and of Ireland as the last of the six wives of King Henry VIII. She married him on 12 July 1543, and outlived him by one year.  1412-1548.  ” She remarried (for the third time and gave birth to her only child — a daughter, Mary Seymour, named after Catherine’s stepdaughter Mary – on 30 August 1548, and died only six days later, on 5 September 1548, at Sudeley Castle in Gloucestershire, from what is thought to be puerperal fever or puerperal sepsis, also called childbed fever.  A theory exists that Catherine’s husband, Sir Thomas Seymour, may have poisoned her to carry out his plan to marry Lady Elizabeth Tudor.  She was buried at Sudley Castle Chapel which fell to ruins and her tomb was oft disturbed before it was saved and restored in the 17th century and placed eventually in a re-built chapel.    https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catherine_Parr

 

 

 

“most dearly and most entirely beloved wife”

 

 

 

 

 

1978 AVON Blue Rose Pitcher and Basin Glass Bubble Bath Container

so is it with our
love, for by absence we are kept a
distance from one another, and yet
it retains its fervour, at least on my
side; I hope the like on yours, as-
suring you that on my part the pain
of absence is already too great for
me; and when I think of the increase
of that which I am forced to suffer,
it would be almost intolerable, but
for the firm hope I have of your un-
changeable affedtion for me: and to
remind you of this sometimes, and
seeing that I cannot be personally
present with you, I now send you the
nearest thing I can to that, namely,
my picture set in a bracelet

 

 

 

 

PLATIC SNICKER'S  Ghost Candy Container

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

SOURCE:

THE DEATH OF KINGS BY Clifford Brewer

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

One Pint 125 Brown STRIPED MCCOY Bowl

 

 

Those who appear the most sanctified are the worst. Elizabeth I

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WELL here we go again—what’s up w/you?  Yesterday was just getting things organized, but I will be listing more items today—so check after 5 pm as to what’s new  https://www.etsy.com/shop/DragonLaire?ref=hdr_shop_menu  Oh the picture above is the deck at Pisces Rising  http://www.piscesrisingdining.com/ in Mt. Dora  http://www.whattodoinmtdora.com/ one of my favorite places in Florida. Check out this great Shop there:  http://www.artisansonfifth.com/  Honorable mention today is Armando’s http://articles.orlandosentinel.com/2012-02-03/entertainment/os-dining-armandos-orlando-restaurant-reviews-20120202_1_fresh-tomato-sauce-pasta-fagioli on Hannibal Square in Winter Park Florida.  I just finished a review for it on Trip Advisor.

 

 

 

This royal throne of kings, this sceptred isle,
This earth of majesty, this seat of Mars, 
 This blessed plot, this earth, this realm, this England.
WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE
King Richard II

 

 

 

 

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BRITIAN’S  LAST KING TO BE KILLED IN BATTLE
In case you haven’t heard–and it’s been a very popular subject of recent dates:  The British have found one of their most notorious kings Richard III in a parking lot.
In the 15th Century Richard the younger and apparently not as popular brother of King Edward IV is recorded in history as taken the throne when his brother died claiming the children were not legal (due to a very real technicality in his brother’s not marrying the woman he was engaged to–back then Royal engagements were real contracts and this one got broken).  The children (two sons) disappeared into the Tower of London complex and word is (most of that words came from the Tudors, but more with them later) that they died there (Two boy’s bodies were found buried on the Tower Grounds in the 17th century and are now buried in Westminster Abbey, but no testing has ever been done on them).
He eventually died in battle with the Upstart Tudors who claimed the throne.     Henry Tudor won the crown and became Henry VII.  He gave a sum of ten pounds and one shilling to have Richard buried at the Monastery Of Grey Friars, which was plundered when his son Henry VIII dissolved the monasteries and rumor had it that Richard’s remains were thrown in the river.
But not true The exhumation and reburial of Richard III began with the discovery of the king‘s remains within the site of the former Greyfriars Friary Church in Leicester, England, in September 2012.  (which proved to be below a parking lot) Following extensive anthropological and genetic testing, the remains of Richard III, the last English king killed in battle, were ultimately reinterred at Leicester Cathedral on 26 March 2015   https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Exhumation_and_reburial_of_Richard_III_of_England
After his head (Sir Thomas More–about the King Henry VIII) was upon the block (he) lift it up again, and gently drew his beard aside, and said:
“This hath not offended the king
 
Oh and an update for those who enjoyed that little bit of parking lot adventure and the British Monarch hunt:  Henry I (younger son of William the Conqueror, who some how beat out three older brothers–one died young, one was accidentally killed by “accident” on a hunting trip–with Henry being one of the participants and the third being on a crusade when the accidental death occurred and returned to find his baby brother in a position of power).  who died of eating really ugly fish–probably ulcer complications but the doctors blamed the fish.

After his death in Normandy in December 1135, his body was brought to Reading sewn into a bull’s hide. He was laid to rest in January 1136.  The abbey was partly destroyed during the dissolution of the monasteries by Henry VIII but there is no firm record of what happened to Henry I’s remains.  http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-berkshire-19725972  It has been suggested that the king’s silver coffin may have been stolen and his remains “scattered to the four winds (or maybe thrown into the river?).  Sounds vaguely familiar doesn’t it?    Oh and guess where they’re talking about looking first:  yep the parking lot.

 

 

 

James V (of Scotland) 1512 – 1542

December 1542 – Of the crown of Scotland, on learning of the birth of Mary Queen of Scots:
“It came with a lass, and it will pass with a lass.”

 

 

 

 

Of all the Reigning houses of the Isle of Briton is there one that has had more publicity?

 

Henry VII:  1457-1509.  The son of a valet and the widow of Henry V.  He managed to push this to a throne and founded the Tudor line.  He died of a wasting lung condition probably TB.   He was buried in Westminster with his wife Elizabeth of York.

His first son Arthur proceeded him (Worcester Cathedral, Worcester, Kingdom of England also probably from TB.

 

 

 

Whoso pulleth out this sword of this stone and anvil is rightwise king born of all England.
 Sir Thomas Malory

 

 

 

 

 

HENRY VIII 1491 – 1547  MOST MARRIED KING

Henry planned a magnificent show for his own resting place. What he got was the picture above.  He died from obesity with renal and hepatic failure.  His face shape in later years is felt to be from “Cushing Syndrome, an endocrine abnormality.  He did not have syphilis as many sensationalistic  writers insist.  Given his obesity and leg ulcer I have oft speculated he more likely might have a form of diabetes that further contributed to his demise.   He requested to be buried with his 3rd wife and mother of his only son.  This was at George’s Chapel at Winsor.  When he died his wishes were only partially met as he was buried with Jane Seymour, but some how his young son–about 10 years old at the time of his father’s death–wasn’t in charge and those that were failed to honor the man with a reputation of ogre at his death—and the king’s final resting place was all but forgotten until the death of Charles I in 1649 (word is that one of the workmen who found the body took one of his finger bones to make a knife handle) when the body of he and his queen were found.

And a plaque was finally put in place in 1837.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Elizabeth I:  1588 – Speech to the troops at Tilbury on the approach of the Armada
“I know I have the body of a weak and feeble woman, but I have the heart and stomach of a king, and of a king of England too.”

 

 

 

 

 

EDWARD VI  THE BOY WHO NEVER REALLY RULED

1537-1553.  Edward became king in 1547 with a council that really governed during his minority.   He died of Pulmonary TB aggravated by an attack of measles, and a misuse of an unknown stimulant.  He was  the first true Protestant king and that was to result in a non-sibling ruler–He was buried at Westminster Abbey.

 

 

 

 

Now order the ranks, and fling wide the banners, for our souls are God’s and our bodies the king’s, and our swords for Saint George and for England!
 Arthur Conan Doyle, Sr.

 

 

 

 

LADY JANE GREY:  THE INNOCENT TRATOR

1537- 1554

Mary the Catholic Princess of a Spanish mother should have been the next ruler but the Protestant powers that be instead set a granddaughter of Henry’s sister Mary on the throne.  This didn’t last long (less than two weeks)  till Mary and a hastily acquired army entered London and left the poor pawn of a girl (she was married to the son of  the chief instigator Norththumberlin) was left to her fate, but the final straw was when her father enter rebellion against Mary when she married a Spanish (and of course Catholic) prince.  His rebellion was the final mark against the girl.  She was executed in the Tower:

It is said that eve at her death she received no assistance and was forced tie her own blindfold which left her in darkness and she was forced to try to find the block of her execution in total darkness.  No one  helped until finally a stranger took pity on a girl who had not received much for most of her ill-fated existence, who helped her to the block where she was dispatched with one blow (so sad that this is one of the few things that seemed to have turned out right in her entire life).  As noted above she is buried somewhere under the floor of  Chapel of St Peter ad Vincula in the Tower of London.

 

Tomorrow we’ll deal with Henry’s other female relatives.

 

 

 

James I (VI of Scotland):  March 21, 1610 – Speech to Parliament
“The king is truly parens patriae, the polite father of his people

 

 

 

 

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OK there’s a parking lot here too!
 
‘We are, by the sufferance of God, King of England; and the Kings of England in times past never had any superior but God’ – Henry VIII

 

 

 

 

 

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“That’s All Folks!” The Man of a Thousand Voices Mel Blanc (Hollywood Memorial Park; Hollywood, California)

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So how was the weekend.  I managed trying a new Italian Restaurant  http://www.milanitalian.com/ in Longwood and a return to another Italian one that I’ve eaten at before http://www.scottjosephorlando.com/index.php/reviews/61-italian/1640-armandos over the two days (the third Sunday was being lazy and watching old movies and repeat wedding episode instead of the Emmys)  .  Also got nails and toes done, wandered about Winter Park  http://www.visitflorida.com/en-us/cities/winter-park.html a bit and actually got some work done and during all this I managed to meet with old friend both expected and un-meetings.  All in all it was a fun adventure and now it’s back to work and what ever.  Honorable mention today is the Student Museum in Sanford:  http://www.scps.k12.fl.us/studentmuseum/Home.aspx

 

 

 

Truth and History.
21 Men.
The Boy Bandit King —
He Died As He Lived.
William H. Bonney “Billy the Kid”
(Fort Sumner Cemetery; Fort Sumner New Mexico

 

 

 

 

 

17" Large BEAD NECKLACE Green with Multi-color Highlights

HOW’S THAT FOR A HEAVENLY VIEW?
Check out this heaven named offering as well:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8ZlAkRlNAa0
So did you watch the Emmys or the Wedding Episode http://www.imdb.com/title/tt3627460/ —One of my two (other is 109) favs so I skipped the Es and watched the AHHHHHHS.
Jamie’s Father’s final resting place.
My Jesus Mercy
Alphonse Capone
(Mt. Carmel Cemetery; Chicago, Illinois)
 
THIS WEEK WE’RE LOOKING AT FIRST (KINDA GETTING READY FOR HALLOWEEN EARLY?)  CEMETERIES AND DEALING WITH THE RICH AND FAMOUS THEIR ENDS AND FINAL PLACES.
The ancient common peoples buried their dead in jumbled heaps with no respect for the individual….this was not uncommon…the average man being less than stellar in his place and importance until relatively recently.   In fact the bones were in some societies left for the birds to pick clean before they were jumbled with the rest.
In the South Pacific common people were thrown into the sea in ancient time…while the more important ones were put on wooden platforms until they rotted (or were picked?) away.   But during these early (around 3000 BC) the individual identity was dissolved in death for the majority.
As time rolled on little changed for the common man but we see more for the ruler and conqueror:  the pyramids in Egypt, the underground palace complex at Mount Li, for the deceased First Emperor of China.   But then there’s less concrete items:  like the sacrifice of 360 horses (provide mares milk forever) for an Iron Age chieftain at Ulski Aul (north of the Black Sea).
I could go on and on but I think you probably have the idea by now the rich and famous don’ t want us to forget that they were and we weren’t
A star on earth – a star in heaven
Karen Carpenter
(Forest Lawn; Cypress, California)
 
 
A cemetery or graveyard is a place where the remains of deceased people are buried or otherwise interred. The word cemetery (from Greek κοιμητήριον, “sleeping place”) implies that the land is specifically designated as a burial ground. The older term graveyard is often used interchangeably with cemetery, but primarily referred to a burial ground within a churchyard.   https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cemetery
Before the beginning of the Garden cemetery, the dead were buried strictly in the churchyards of Europe. For the rich, burial within the church itself was preferred. For those who could not be buried inside of the church, the churchyard became the next best thing. Even here, one’s social status depended on the section of the ground where you were buried. The most favored sites were those to the east, as close as possible to the church. In such a location, the dead would be assured the best view of the rising sun on the Day of Judgment. People of lesser distinction were buried on the south side, while the north corner of the graveyard was considered the Devil’s domain. It was reserved for stillborns, bastards and strangers unfortunate enough to die while passing through the local parish.  http://www.prairieghosts.com/grave_history.html
IN THE 1820S, AMERICA’S CITIES HAD A PROBLEM: People kept dying, and church burial grounds were filling up. Fortunately, a group of horticulturists in Massachusetts had a solution and, in 1831, Mount Auburn Cemetery in Cambridge became the first modern cemetery. Other cities began to follow suit, dedicating rolling, scenic tracts of land on the outskirts of town to honor the deceased. This “rural cemetery,” or “garden cemetery,” movement not only temporarily solved the problem of where to put the dead, but it also gave us the nation’s very first parks.     http://www.americanforests.org/magazine/article/in-the-garden-cemetery-the-revival-of-americas-first-urban-parks/
She did it the hard way.
Bette Davis
(Forest Lawn; Hollywood Hills, California)
 
 
Even Benjamin Franklin wrote an epitaph for Skugg—a squirrel which he gave to Bishop Shipley’s daughters.  Seems that it wandered off and was done in by a dog.   Not only did he write a long and flowery prose about the squirrel who had traveled far (Franklin had brought him from Philadelphia) and was lamented with “trifling sorrow” but he completed it with
Here Skugg
Lies snug
As a bug
In a rug
a epitaph that made Skugg if not by name, then at least by phrase immortal.
Bay Leaves (used by Romans to adorn their homes for good luck) were carried at many Christian funerals as a sign of the promised resurrection of those that were interred in the faith.
Zombies that are so popular in movies and TV were originally a dead person brought back to life by a magician, they basically were like a modern day robot carrying out orders from the person who raised them.  The word is from the African Congo and was believed by some to be a means of punishment beyond the grave for the deceased.
At Rest
An American Soldier
And Defender of the Constitution
Jefferson Davis
(Hollywood Cemetery; Richmond, Virginia)
In Mexico the dead are celebrated (El Dia de los Muertos) beginning on the Eve of October 31—Day of the Dead.  Some scholars believe it is a conglomeration of Celtic, Catholic and Aztec mythology.   It includes beliefs that the soul of the dead migrates with the monarch butterfly.
Cemeteries aren’t just for humans.  Bide-a-Wee Pet Memorial Park  http://www.bideawee.org/Pet-Memorial-Parks (Wantagh, Long Island, New York)  is one of many and has been said to b e  one of the busiest Pet Cemeteries in the country.  Richard Nixon’s dog Checkers as well as many others including a grasshopper named Gary are buried here.
With our growing population and declining room for other than the living,  cremation (which has been a fact for years)  has become increasingly popular:
Kurt Cobain was cremated and his ashes reportedly scattered everywhere.
River Phoenix  after a lethal combination of drugs ended his partying forever was cremated and his ashes scattered on family land in Gainesville, FL.
John Lennon is another matter with Yoko’s story  changing (as is not unusual for her) as to exactly what happened to the body and where it or the ashes ended.
“The Entertainer”
He did it all
Sammy Davis, Jr.
(Forest Lawn; Glendale, California)
Steel True, Blade Straight
Sir Arthur Conan Doyle
(Windlesham Estate; Crowborough, Sussex, England)
[In 1955, Doyle’s family sold Windlesham, which was turned into a hotel. The bodies of Conan Doyle and his wife, Jean, were moved to a grave at Minstead Churchyard, Hampshire.]
 
SOURCES:
Benoit, Tod:  WHERE ARE THEY BURIED?  HOW DID THEY DIE?
Guiley, Rosemay Ellen:  THE ENCYCLOPEDIA OF WITCHES & WITCHCRAFT
Radford, E. & M.A.:  THE ENCYCLOPEDIA OF SUPERSTITIONS
Ravenwolf, SIlver:  HALLOWEEN
Taylor, Timothy:  THE BURIED SOUL
Weil, Tom:  THE CEMETERY BOOK
Called Back
Emily Dickinson
(West Cemetery; Amherst, Massachusetts)
{self written}
 

“I know not how it was—but, with the first glimpse of the building, a sense of insufferable gloom pervaded my spirit” E.A. Poe

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“An excited and highly distempered ideality threw a sulphurous luster over all. His long improvised dirges will ring forever in my ears”

 

 

HEY I’M BACK–DID YOU MISS ME?  Yesterday was Italian (just food no men) for lunch, then a book store where I bought an Allison Weir   http://alisonweir.org.uk/ on Jane Gray (if you have to ask don’t  just look here:  http://englishhistory.net/tudor/relative/lady-jane-grey/).   I picked up some new items—which will show up on my store:  https://www.etsy.com/shop/DragonLaire?ref=hdr_shop_menu  and ended the day with dinner an a movie:  IT HAPPENED ONE NIGHT  https://www.criterion.com/films/27900-it-happened-one-night  now working on plans for the weekend.  Oh and honorable mention:  Orlando Art Museum  http://omart.org/  A bit of culture in the Central Florida (http://centralfloridatop5.com/2015/05/19/orlando-please-dont-redefine-us/)  .  See some of my better moments at :  https://www.pinterest.com/lindachase56829/omg-is-this-for-real/

 

 

 

“During the whole of a dull, dark, and soundless day in the autumn of the year, when the clouds hung oppressively low in the heavens, I had been passing alone, on horseback, through a singularly dreary tract of country; and at length found myself, as the shades of the evening drew on, within view of the melancholy House of Usher

 

 

 

 

 

 

GRANDPA MUNSTER 16" Doll in Cape with Original Tags

 

 

 

 

Whether it’s Jamie falling off his horse from loss of blood or falling for Claire because he wanted her more than anything he ever wanted before in his life….or us falling for Jamie and his alter ego Sam there’s a lot of falling going on with Outlander–it’s a win-win situation.  Check out https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FVEMCZ01TlU&index=3&list=RD6_QyGgrFFbA  for a great You Tube Mystic with lots of scenes of Jamie and Clairewarning nudity—or in the case of most of the fans of the show maybe I should just do warnings is there’s no nudity

 

 

 

 

I looked upon the scene before me–upon the mere house, and the simple landscape features of the domain–upon the bleak walls–upon the vacant eye-like windows–upon a few rank sedges–and upon a few white trunks of decayed trees–with an utter depression of soul which I can compare to no earthly sensation more properly than to the after-dream of the reveller upon opium–the bitter lapse into everyday life–the hideous dropping off of the veil.

 

 

 

 

 

Newsweek  Oct  1995 Special Report OJ The VERDICT

Today we finish with the fall:

When I look back on my prior life in the north I realize that fall and not the cold of winter bothered me more….the bright leaves of autumn were just a prophecy of what was to come—for soon the leaves would  became one in their dullness and dark colors.  And then the days would grow overcast and forbidding with the clouds heavy and  impregnated with rain that would soon too become something else.   I hated when the rain came, everything looked dark and foreboding.  The leaves no longer bright, no longer pretty were stripped by the steady pounding of the water from on high—the fall of the rain—causing the fall of the leaves and the trees stood contorted creatures against the pervading gray of the sky with an occasional lone leaf or a small cluster of survivors clinging against hope and fate to their origins, fighting against the fall that changed them from beautiful and alive to trash in the mud of the earth.

 

 

 

 

 

 

There was an iciness, a sinking, a sickening of the heart–an unredeemed dreariness of thought which no goading of the imagination could torture into aught of the sublime.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

While there are a few falls that bespeak good—most commonly Falling in love (and that can in the end be a good or a bad thing depending on many things—–many, many things.)  But many more that don’t.

The obvious falling off a horse, down a stairs or head over heals (which can also be used to describe the love issue).  Lesser physical damage but often worse mental is falling for a joke or falling for the wrong person (sorry for all the romantic issues here but falling seems to be all tied up with this love thing).

 

I think the ultimate fall is probably Lucifer, the Supreme  angel and heaven’s main star, who would after this  be more commonly be called Satan, due to his rebellion and subsequent fall from grace as well as from heaven—-something that has been remarked on and remembered through time untold.

 

There is the Rise and FALL of the Roman empire—(before them there was Greece  which did the same—I could go and on but ) what goes up must come down seems to be reinforced by the world’s history of Empires–the ones we know about and the distant and mysterious kingdoms we may never even know existed—again going high usually assures eventually you must fall.

 

 

 

 

It was possible, I reflected, that a mere different arrangement of the particulars of the scene, of the details of the picture, would be sufficient to modify, or perhaps to annihilate its capacity for sorrowful impression.

 

 

 

 

 

 

The world of Fiction like the world of Fact is full of FALLS:
In Legends of the Fall we see three brothers each very different, living on an isolated ranch in the wilderness of Canada.     “Legends of the Fall is a 1994 American epic drama film directed by Edward Zwick and starring Brad Pitt, Anthony Hopkins, Aidan Quinn, Julia Ormond and Henry Thomas. Based on the 1979 novella of the same title by Jim Harrison, the film is about three brothers and their father living in the remote wilderness of the early 20th century and how their lives are affected by nature, history, war and love. ”  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Legends_of_the_Fall  The movie is full of death, betrayal and misdirected love and hate which results in lust, remorse, jealousy and even insanity.   It is a beautifully photographed movie that is utterly debilitating to the senses and a text book on the art of the rise and fall on a more human level than empires and even a bear doubling as fate.

 

 

Anti-heroes seem to be a favorite of our times—the man /or woman who starts out good (or not) and ends the prime character that has fallen from whatever grace the story line entails, but I think he’s been around for more years than you can count and he may or may not fall depending on his creator:  Take for instance Macbeth:  “Macbeth is Shakespeare’s shortest tragedy, and tells the story of a brave Scottish general named Macbeth who receives a prophecy from a trio of witches that one day he will become King of Scotland. Consumed by ambition and spurred to action by his wife, Macbeth murders King Duncan and takes the throne for himself. He is then wracked with guilt and paranoia, and he soon becomes a tyrannical ruler as he is forced to commit more and more murders to protect himself from enmity and suspicion. The bloodbath and consequent civil war swiftly take Macbeth and Lady Macbeth into the realms of arrogance, madness, and death.”   https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Macbeth   Pride comes before a fall kind of morality tale then.  In our more modern society would the author have killed him off or made him something elsewe seem to  like the morality of it all less now, which perhaps that could eventually be leading to our fall?

 

 

 

 

 

 

It was, indeed, a tempestuous yet sternly beautiful night, and one wildly singular in its terror and its beauty

 

 

 

There are of course more fall and falls wonderful falls–ones containing water–sometime people and barrels—pratfalls that are purposeful and non- (for the most part) painful,  fall weddings (which again can be painful or not) and fall flowers (that bring fall showers—sorry negative again) and on and on for positive images but for some reason my mind went to the dark side today (–I’d get Darth in there some how but ….)….But don’t fall for that negative stuff and have a great weekend.

 

 

 

 

“And now, some days of bitter grief having elapsed, an observable change came over the mental disorder of [Roderick]….He roamed from chamber to chamber….The pallor of his countenance had assumed…a more ghastly hue [and] the luminousness of his eye had utterly gone out….[He gazed] upon vacancy for long hours, in an attitude of the profoundest attention, as if listening to some imaginary sound.”

 

 

 

 

 

PERUVAIN GOD Ceremonial Souvenir Wall Hanging

 

 

 

“There was a long tumultous shouting like the sounds of a thousand waters-and the deep and dank tarn at my feet closed sullenly and silently over the fragments of the House of Usher

 

 

 

The main picture by the way is from the Pittsburgh , PA   airport.  Oh and if you hadn’t noticed the quotes are from Poe’s  House of Usher.

 

 

 

 

 

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Life’s a Bitch—You’ve got to go out and kick Ass M. Angelou

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Today’s Blog is dedicated to Liz my hair dresser, prime listener to my madness and a kick ass person if I ever met one (hence the title today.  http://www.haircuttery.com/locations/).  So yesterday was just work and more of the SSDD routine…..and today we carry on that tradition.  Don’t forget to check out my novel—start at the beginning of the board and came forward as the quotes will make more sense then.  It’s about King Arthur but with emphasis on the old ways and religion—no suits of armor and where both Christian Monk and Goddess priestess battles for the people and Arthur must ride a thin line of compromise betwixt the twohttps://www.pinterest.com/lindachase56829/  and if you’re tired of the SSDD routine try running away with this Board:  https://www.pinterest.com/lindachase56829/run-away-you-deserve-a-change/.    Oh and if you’re in Orlando and really want to get away but not so far try my honorable mention:  LOCK HAVEN PARK  (AGAIN AWAITING publishing review on Trip Advisor)  http://www.cityoforlando.net/parks/loch-haven-park/

 

 

 

 

“When we do the best we can, we never know what miracle is wrought in our life, or in the life of another.” – Helen Keller

 

 

 

 

BEATLES SCRAPBOOK from th 1960s

GOODMORNING JAMIE FRASER
WHEN ARE YOU COMING BACK FROM PARIS?  or at least to my TV so I can watch you in Paris.  I wander if they’ll have the one where he comes home (wearing a kilt, not his usual Paris long pants) with a bite mark on his thigh?  check out this account from Cait on the new season:    http://www.inquisitr.com/2310320/outlander-star-caitriona-balfe-says-paris-society-is-a-huge-adjustment-for-jamie-and-claire-in-season-2/
“Any woman who understands the problems of running a home will be nearer to understanding the problems of running a country.” – Margaret Thatcher
SO we have been doing fall or autumn or harvest depending on your mind set and if you’re old, young or ancient.  Of course it means return to school—though it happens over a month before fall in these modern days) and apparently includes a fall shoe trend though some of those seem better suited for winter and in Florida not suited at all.
And of course as we mentioned earlier this week the return of high school and college football with its practice, games and TV participation most definitely a fall rite.
And in addition to School trends there’s school fashion trends which I find interestingly enough being overshadowed by school uniforms—once a peculiarity of parochial (especially Catholic) or high class finishing institutions—-it has now been adopted by several district public schools in an effort to stop bullying and allow for an equal (at least fashion wise) footing for all.  I as a person who hates conformity have issues with the mind boggling sameness—-but as a child who was bullied and looked down on because I didn’t have the lovely clothes of my school mates, I can see the point.
“If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun.” – Katharine Hepburn
Fall  Rites can be fun—there’s apple pie from the harvest of the land and bonfires to help get rid of all those leaves which while on the trees are lovely but get a bit overwhelmingly like trash when deposited in your front yard or backyard pool.
One thing, that living in bigger cities, that I have been deprived of is the hayride.  I use to love hayrides—they are more fun with horses doing the pulling (don’t ask me why—may be the clip clop of the hooves as  opposed to the drone of the John Deere, who knows.)  But even without the clop I enjoy setting on bales of prickly , dried vegetation with other friends and/or strangers and moving under a warm (but not hot thank you) sky that is either showing the last rays of a sun set or is already sprinkled with a wonder variety of stars—something you often miss in the city lights of night.  Sometimes you sing stupid song that you haven’t sang since you were in the rites of return to school.
AND THE TWO biggie rites Halloween with its tradition going back thousands of years and its reactionary response by some religious groups on its Satanic origins.  And Thanksgiving—-less the 300 years and brought about by a group that were notorious for burning woman (especially thought there were a few men included) for being in league with Satanic forces.  Weird when you think about it.  I love both holidays as Halloween lets me decorate and not be worried about someone questioning my good taste.  And Thanksgiving allowing me to express my happiness on having friends, being alive and all the other things that makes me happy (except pumpkin pie—I just can’t get into pumpkin pie).
“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.” – Anais Nin
Another rite of fall is the fair, exhibition whatever:
“The American county fair developed in the early nineteenth century when agricultural reformers in the northeastern United States organized local exhibitions to promote modern farming. Typical events included livestock judging, exhibits of new agricultural implements and techniques, and plowing contests. ”  http://www.encyclopedia.chicagohistory.org/pages/345.html  While once an exclusive country exhibition with awards for everything from pies to calves it has graduated into so much more and is often seen in the city as well as the country.   I haven’t been to a fair in so long, which is weird given  my memories of same which are mostly good (I did have a boyfriend throw up once on the ferriswheel—–ehhhhhhh.)
It also use to be the time for the new TV shows, but with the introdution of cable and satellites that has changed so much.  When I was growing up we had 3 networks—then an independent popped up and OMG there was 4….now I have over a thousand (but when you check those there are several I have to pay extra for and several duplicates and then ones that you say “HUH why is that a channel?”) or more to pick from (so why is there still nothing on TV).  And while the traditional networks (my original three) still tend to open or reopen their shows in the fall there is so much altered even on that the anticipation that we use to have on the new shows just isn’t there-–Grief we still don’t know when they are bringing us the 2nd season of Outlander.
“I could not, at any age, be content to take my place by the fireside and simply look on. Life was meant to be lived. Curiosity must be kept alive. One must never, for whatever reason, turn his back on life.” – Eleanor Roosevelt

Do understand that just because you are naked doesn’t mean that others find you attractive.

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BEING SINGLE MEANS YOU DON’T ALWAYS HAVE TO MAKE THE BED—but you do read the books.  The Main pic is a view from Lock Haven Park to Florida Hospital  and my Featured Attraction is Mennello Museum of American Art  http://www.mennellomuseum.com/ which is by the way is in Lock Haven….if you haven’t been there lately (I was last weekend) you might like to re-visit or if you’ve never been there try it you’ll like it—my review on the museum should be out soon:  http://www.tripadvisor.com/   Ok yesterday was mailing items—from sales this weekend from my store:  https://www.etsy.com/shop/DragonLaire?ref=hdr_shop_menu   Lots of things to like there….and then on to some Pet patrol items—not exactly an adventuresome Monday, but hey one can’t expect a lot out of Mondays.  Oh and finally  check out my OMG Board with lots of fun stuff>  https://www.pinterest.com/lindachase56829/omg-is-this-for-real/
oh and to see the interview where Sam made the famous a few Stiff Ones quotes—-I have come to the conclusion that while beautiful to behold he doesn’t always think before he speaks….Cait a few beats later:  I can’t believe you said that— check out my OMG  board:  https://www.pinterest.com/lindachase56829/omg-is-this-for-real/
to see that interview.
and check out http://lokisbruid.tumblr.com/post/111558952219/outlandersource-new-scene-from-s01e09  for a question few of the women I know could say no to……….I should put this in the OMG section
We’re still on fall
NO NO the season
Season not seasonings
Close
OK close enough.
SO TODAY I THOUGHT I’D LOOK AT some of the wackier aspects of the seasonings—ah season….
Hint be sure you read the word or you won’t get the picture.
RAKING LEAVES:  I have no idea how long we’ve been doing this.  I know that here in Florida we only get a few colorful trees each year and that our trees shed leaves in varied loss time frames so while up north you pretty much get dumped on all at once (and if you get behind the snow comes and covers your neglect of the foliage up)—down here we are plagued with a series of falls, one usually timed to occur just after you’ve gotten the last one cleaned up and not disappearing unless you get a hurricane (but the season does last through October so it’s a possibility).
and of course Fall Means FOOTBALL
The date was November 12, 1892, a day that would forever be etched in sports history…. It was the day that the Allegheny Athletic Association football team defeated the Pittsburgh Athletic Club. ….one of the circumstances of the game did make it a never-to-be-forgotten moment in sports history – one of the AAA players, William (Pudge) Heffelfinger, was openly paid $500 to play the game. Thus pro football made its debut…” http://www.profootballhof.com/history/general/birth.aspx#sthash.IwzvtmgG.dpuf
But the game had been around a bit before then:  The 1869 college football season was the first season of  (college) football in the United States. While played using improvised rules…  it is traditionally considered the inaugural …season. It consisted …two total games…first was played on November 6 at Rutgers’ campus, and the second was played on November 13 at Princeton’s campus.  https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/1869_college_football_season
And since then we have developed
Football widows
Merchandise with team names and logos on everything from jock straps to bras and beyond
Super Bowl Parties (the first Super Bowl was 1967 Green Bay Packers (34) against Kansas City Chiefs (10)) that strain the billfold as well as the imagination
and so much more
and  Oh the  festivals and Holidays:
September 17th:    International Country Music Day was established in the 1950s and is held each year.   Which  just goes to show I’m not parnoid–it is everywhere:  On this special day country music festivals are held at various venues around the world. Lovers of country music gather to listen to live music acts while drinking (it helps) and dancing.   https://www.daysoftheyear.com/days/international-country-music-day/

September 18th–22nd – London Fashion Week. London Fashion Week sets the global fashion agenda, alongside the other big shows in Paris, Milan and New York. (the above pictures may be from one these but am not sure which one.   )  http://www.educationuk.org/usa/articles/festivals-and-holidays/#september

 

 

Day of the Dead, Mexico November 1 & 2:  Kinda like our Halloween and the Christian Celebration and 2 (All Souls Day), Mexicans welcome back the souls of their dead on El Dia De Los Muertos. But there’s no weeping and wailing – it’s a jolly affair with everyone preparing favourite food for their dear departed.
Flowers and candles are placed on graves and at 6pm the bells begin to ring, summoning the dead. They ring all night, stopping at sunrise.  https://www.google.com/search?safe=off&q=weird+fall+festivals+and+holiday+world+wide&oq=weird+fall+festivals+and+holiday+world+wide&g

 

 

According to Medical Daily:  People who live to be 100 tend to be born in the fall.
http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/keywords/adventure.html#544QZpjJevvx7DmH.99
and according to World Life Style fall people tend to:

• Have a more cheerful temperament compared to winter babies

• Fall asleep earlier than people born in spring or summer

•Fall Females have less grey matter in a specific part of your brain, which is linked to a higher chance of developing schizophrenia

• Have over a 9 percent higher risk of having food allergies

http://www.worldlifestyle.com/health-fitness/the-weird-ways-your-birth-season-affects-your-personality-and-health

 

 

 

 

 

and let’s finish up with some fall facts
1.  Fall can bring an especially noticeable change to the high-attitude-living male Siberian hamster. That’s because the rodent’s testes swell up 17 times their size from short days to long; the swelling allows, in part, the animals to time reproduction properly.  http://www.livescience.com/39847-autumn-equinox-facts-about-fall.html
2.   When Day Light savings ends:  There are more car crashes in the weeks just after but fewer heart attacks on the Monday following.  Oh and overnight train trips via Amtrak are an hour longer on the eve of the change. http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/10-facts-about-the-fall-season-1.1109474
3.  Samhainophobia is the fear of Halloween.  Scarecrows, a popular Halloween fixture, symbolize the ancient agricultural roots of the holiday.  Harry Houdini (1874-1926) was one of the most famous and mysterious magicians who ever lived., he died in 1926 on Halloween night …Halloween has been around for over 6,000 years…Halloween celebrations in Hong Kong are known as Yue Lan or the “Festival of the Hungry Ghosts”…..In many countries, such as France and Australia, Halloween is seen as an unwanted and overly commercial American influence.  http://facts.randomhistory.com/halloween-facts.html
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Fantasy Fest October in Key West


Don’t wear a mask you can’t drink in.Don’t choose a costume you can’t use the bathroom in.Don’t wear shoes you can’t walk in.Do dress sexier than you thought you might.Do make sure you have a place to stay before you get too drunk.Do realize that the shape and size of your breasts/***** will not change with spray paint.Don’t wear your thong with your leg in the wrong hole.