“All women become like their mothers. That is their tragedy. No man does. That’s his.”

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Main picture is from the Baker Street Tube Station….the rest are from the Sherlock Holmes Museum (check out my rview https://www.tripadvisor.com/Attraction_Review-g186338-d211907-Reviews-Sherlock_Holmes_Museum-London_England.html )

Oh and I forgot to include Chappie’s site last night:  http://www.rookiescantina.com/

and we’re finishing up family—not completely just for the blog.

and of course what would life be w/o Jamie…ah and Claire too of course….

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Frederick Buechner
“You can kiss your family and friends good-bye and put miles between you, but at the same time you carry them with you in your heart, your mind, your stomach, because you do not just live in a world but a world lives in you.”
Precious Moments “Mommy Sew Dear” Figurine 1979
$5.76
OK IN OUR ONGOING EFFORT TO KEEP DROUGHTLANDER AT BAY AND SURVIVE TILL 2017 HORIZON:
Keep up to date on all the current crew crew–start with Tobias:
while you’re getting technical how about how they handle the old and new:  http://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/film-tv/news/a17388/outlander-costume-designer-production-designer-interview/
Jay McInerney, The Last of the Savages
“The capacity for friendship is God’s way of apologizing for our families.”‘
Hand Embroidered Standard Size Pillow Case Birds with Bouquet
So this week we’ve been looking at families—in the right or wrong places?  I’m not sure if that’s ever anywhere near the same for any of us.  Have you see the movie Sweet Home Alabama  (A young woman who’s reinvented herself as a New York socialite must return home to Alabama to obtain a divorce from her husband, after seven years of separation).  This is a woman who has become someone she wants to be but is it really her?  Her return home may prove that it isn’t.
This is a cross section of the good—her final decision, the bad—-her reunion with her family and friends and the ugly–Candice Bergan is fantastic as the mother of her perspective groom, the one she’s finally decided to contront her first husband about that pesky divorce.
Leo Tolstoy, Anna Karenina
“All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way.”
Huffington gave us a list of 21 TV shows that makes you believe in the power of family.  #18 was Roseanne…and that of the 21 is the only one I ever really watched.  Guess I’m not a real family person?
The show:  “The Conners became the face of blue collar working-class families in 1988, and at the center of the show Roseanne Barr was a dominant — to say the least — voice for working mothers”
I think this family were more normal than most TV families before it and certainly dealt more with the bad—the family’s sometime total disfunction and the Ugly–no way you can see Rosie as a beautiful person….as far as good—well there were the ratings.
Mark Twain
“When I was a boy of fourteen, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be twenty-one, I was astonished at how much the old man had learned in seven years.”
‘now when you get to books there’s a wider selection.  Little Woman was a great read when I was in my early teens and even now I see the growing up in the 1860s.   The novel follows the lives of four sisters—Meg, Jo, Beth, and Amy March—detailing their passage from childhood to womanhood, and is loosely based on the author and her three sisters.
The good is just about everything and anything about this family (except Amy which is spoilt but not so much you’d notice now days—and the fact that she ends up with someone else’s trip and love) The ugly is the war looming over their heads and their father’s being in it.
Mitch Albom, The Five People You Meet in Heaven
“All parents damage their children. It cannot be helped. Youth, like pristine glass, absorbs the prints of its handlers. Some parents smudge, others crack, a few shatter childhoods completely into jagged little pieces, beyond repair.”
In To Kill a Mockingbird you see a single parent family, and one with just the father making it unusual especially for the period it was written in.
Scout Finch (Mary Badham), 6,and her older brother, Jem (Phillip Alford), live in sleepy Maycomb, Ala., spending much of their time with their friend Dill (John Megna) and spying on their reclusive and mysterious neighbor, Boo Radley (Robert Duvall). When Atticus (Gregory Peck), their widowed father and a respected lawyer, defends a black man named Tom Robinson (Brock Peters) against fabricated rape charges, the trial and tangent events expose the children to evils of racism and stereotyping
The novel has the goodness of young children and a father who is a moral man with the badness of a small town and the ugliness of prejudice, and the stronger preying on the weak.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
“Men are what their mothers made them.”
I’m not sure if I can I find much good in this book the first in a series of pain, anger and worse.  Flowers in the Attic is:  After the sudden death of their father, four children face cruel treatment from their ruthless grandmother.
  The good are the original innocence of the children…the bad is the rest of the family and the ugly runs from mother to daughter for a rich assortment of reasons.
Trenton Lee Stewart, The Mysterious Benedict Society
“You must remember, family is often born of blood, but it doesn’t depend on blood. Nor is it exclusive of friendship. Family members can be your best friends, you know. And best friends, whether or not they are related to you, can be your family.”
And I couldn’t leave out the reality shows–Here Comes Honey Boo Boo  featuring the family of child beauty contestant Alana “Honey Boo Boo” Thompson The show mainly revolves around Alana “Honey Boo Boo” Thompson and “Mama” June Shannon and their family’s adventures in the southern town of Mcintyre, Georgia.  If there’s good I haven’t found it yet but the bad is that its still on and the ugly is so many American continue to watch this.
W. Somerset Maugham
“Few misfortunes can befall a boy which brings worse consequences than to have a really affectionate mother.”
LITTLE Jack Horner Plate by John McClelland with Certificates, Booklet and Box (originals)
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William Butler Yeats
“No man has ever lived that had enough of children’s gratitude or woman’s love.”
ORIENTAL Peasant DOLL with Traditional Hat and Coconut Fiber Dress 6 1/2″ Vintage
$19.75
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